Category: Friendship

Care Package

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Homemade cookies & handcrafted jewelry box. Photo Credit: Tremaine L. Loadholt

One of my closest friends lives in Anchorage, Alaska. She sent me homemade cookies (that she lovingly made) and this handcrafted jewelry box she purchased from one of the local native Alaskan artists.

You know how sometimes you simply have no words for the love you have for someone–how no word seems to describe how moved you are when you think of a person? That’s how I feel about Zainey.

Her birthday is coming up soon, and I intend to surprise her. She’s not hard to please, and she has such a booming personality, she’ll appreciate whatever is offered to her. But, I know what to get her.

I often worry about the way I love and the kind of hard love I offer to others, but something like this takes place to let me know, I’m loving the way I need to.

Happy Friday, beautiful people!

I hope you are offering love the way you know how, and that you are also allowing yourself to receive it, too.

An Overnight Trip To Charlotte, NC

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TRU by Hilton hotel near the Charlotte Airport on Cascade Pointe Blvd.
The bar in the lobby, business space, TV, Jernee resting #1, Jernee resting #2, and a blow dryer bag.
My best friend’s dogs: Baby Bella Rue #1, Baby Bella Rue #2, & Stacey-Lou and Bella Rue. And of course, Jernee Timid, too.

For the Mothering Ones

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A Mother’s Day poem

Photo by Annie Spratt via Unsplash

I won’t claim to know
the depth of love a
mother has for her
children; how she will war
for them without hesitation,
disciplines them when it’s
necessary, and sacrifices to
keep them sustained.

She is a queen who does
not own any crowns except
the one on her head, yet she
dazzles the earth with her
power.

I can’t say I know what
she has had to do in
order to make $15.00
last until the next payday
with two other mouths
to feed, but I know
the glow around her as
it shines to reach the
rest of us.

And as we stand outside of
her realm, us … the mothering ones,
watching her and
taking notes, we can
somewhat understand.

If you are a nurturer, caretaking
for someone who needs
an extra hand, I see you.
If you race toward the overtime
offers to pull in additional funds
for a senior pet, a niece or
nephew, or your neighbor’s
neglected twins, I see you.

If you haven’t slept in
three days because your dying
cat’s medicine cost more
than your groceries, I see you.
If you are an older sibling
putting your sisters and brothers
ahead of your wants & needs,
I k n o w that place.

And as we all catapult
ourselves into a constantly
taking world, we give
and give and give until
the last bit of us is
dried up and gone.

And even then, we’ll give
some more.

For the mothering ones;
Your plight is one that
cannot be denied, and with
every piling day, may your
existence be praised from
the pits of full bellies,
from the mouths of babes,
and from the people who
need you most.

I see you.

Originally published in soliloque via Medium.