I am sharing this final newsletter from A Cornered Gurl via Medium.
I love this space, and it will always have my heart, but I have to let some things go.
I don’t want to be that editor who shuts down their publication without sending a proper goodbye and explanation… So, here we are.
And here is not where I want to be, but here is where I have to be.
Some of you may know, that I was promoted at work this past March, and with that promotion, came assignments and responsibilities that eat up my time, and sometimes my sanity.
As much as I would love to continue to don a superhero cape and keep the midnight oil burning for A Cornered Gurl, ultimately, I cannot.
I can no longer work full-time, take care of a senior dog, coordinate event planning details for our company Engagement Team, and breathe without feeling like I will pass out.
It is a lot! Recognizing this and knowing the depth of what it takes to accurately review, edit, schedule, publish, and interact with various writers is a surefire epiphany.
One year later, I am at an impasse, but I know my path — I am of sound mind and body, and I say to all of you, it is time.
You Have Given Me Love, So I Give Love To You
I love this space and it will always have my heart, but I have to let some things go. Checking my list of duties and commitments, I have to select things that will break my heart to see them reach their end, but will eventually benefit me in the long run.
Thank you for trusting me with your words. Thank you for trusting me with your heart. Thank you for allowing me to welcome you into this safe space one more time.
I want you to know I have given this so much thought and consideration — devoted days, weeks, and many hours to this decision. It is not a pretty thing to witness oneself fight their own shadow about their dreams.
I am not acting in haste. It is a practice of mine to only draw a conclusion regarding major life changes when I have sat with the idea of those changes for a long time.
I am at peace with this. My mind is at ease.
You Work Will Have A Forever Home
If you have granted me the opportunity to publish your work, it will remain here forever unless you choose to remove it and publish it to your profile or send it to another publication you believe suits the content.
As I did once before, I will leave ACG up for future readers to peruse the words shared here and the interactions, too.
Should you choose to let them stay here, this is their forever home. And I welcome their planted presence as I did upon publishing them.
Will I Still Be Around On Medium
I am toying with the idea of also jumping ship regarding Medium as a whole. I have not yet come to a conclusion on this subject.
I do know I do not have the time to publish my own work nearly as much as I used to.
I also do not have the time to read the work of other writers as much as I used to or would like to.
Medium is ingrained in my heart, but it does not make me emotional anymore at the thought of calling it quits here.
I have devoted nearly ten years to this platform. I have been here for the many changes that occurred in the past, and I do not know if I have it in me to continue on for the many changes to come.
The jury is still deliberating on that.
Please Keep In Touch
If you want to, and your bones tell you to pursue this task, you can keep in touch with me, should you notice I have gone quiet on Medium.
I will keep ACG’s Instagram page, but make some changes so that it reflects more of who I am as a person and not an editor. You may keep up with me there.
I will always have my website, which includes my blog and other points of contact there. It is also dubbed A Cornered Gurl.
This Is, “See You Around, Not Goodbye”
I would say, “Goodbye and God Bless,” but this is not goodbye. This is simply, “See You Around.” It just will not be here in A Cornered Gurl.
At the publishing of this letter, submissions will be closed.
Please know you are and will forever be thought of, admired, respected, and uplifted.
I wish you well. It has been my pleasure.
*Sidenote: I am NOT leaving WordPress. This is my home. This is for Medium only. ❤️💜💙
Peace and blessings.
Originally shared as the final newsletter in A Cornered Gurl via Medium.
Doing what’s best for you is key!!! Love your honesty and raw emotions.
I jumped to conclusions at first and was like if my girl leaves me on WP I’m coming to find her. LOL
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Haha! I’m not going anywhere from WordPress. Lol. 🤣😂😆
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A gracious letter that I’ve come to know is the core of you.
I understand how one needs to say see you around to something that has been so meritorious. Medium is hard work. Fun but hard work. So much happens in that platform. I’m on hiatus from Medium.
You are loved regardless. Blessing you and all the best in all your endeavors.
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Thank you! Yes, I’ve taken several hiatuses from Medium, but in my spirit, deep down in my bones, I really think it has run its course within me. I am still trying to move around and through those feelings, but I defnitely had to let editing and publishing for A Cornered Gurl there go.
Peace, Selma. Be well.
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I so love this honest and heartfelt post but I near panicked thinking you were leaving WP.. Whew 😅… happy to hear. Happy you are following your heart.❤️
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Haha. Thank you! I appreciate this! 🙏🏾💙
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❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 ❤️
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Self must always come first trE, closely followed by Jernee of course. Love and hugs to you both. 🤗🧡🤗🧡
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Thank you kindly, Peter. You are correct! *Big hugs*
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You do what’s best for your sanity girl, but you’ll be around. Hope this decision brings you a little more time and peace of mind ❤️.
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Thank you! I’m looking forward to what the change will bring. I’m making a few other little changes as well to help. I’ll write about those later. 🙏🏾💙
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Your well-being comes first! So grateful for your presence on WP, Tre. 💙
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Aww. You know you’ve got me for life, though, Mags. Lol. I am grateful for your presence, period! *Big hugs*
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((((HUGS))))
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I’m glad you are not leaving WP!!
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Haha. No, sir! Not WordPress. Lol. 🤣😂😆
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😅 whew!
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Gotta do what ya gotta do…nice to know you will be in WP land
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Yes, sir. ☺️
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I commend you, trE, for putting your health and well-being first. Not only are you taking care of your needs, but you may inspire others to make similar decisions. Difficult decisions. I am so proud of you! I am also very relieved to read you’re not leaving WP. 😅 I’d be singing a different tune if that were the case. 😁 Enjoy your weekend! 🤗
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Haha. Thank you! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
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Thank you! For staying with us. 😊🙌🏻
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Haha! I wouldn’t dream of leaving WordPress anytime soon. 🙌🏾🙏🏾💙
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Good! We have it in writing. 😁🤗
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Haha! 😂🤣😆 Smart woman!
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🤓🙏🏻
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I admire you for looking ater yourself. It take a lot of deliberation and soul searching to land on the right decision. Also, because I’ve never been an Instagram or Medium user, I am mightily relieved that you consider WordPress your home.
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Yes, ma’am! I’ve been here far too long. I think I’m coming up on either 16 or 17 years. That’s a long time to remain on one platform. I wouldn’t leave this space. 💜❤️💙
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I just followed you on IG. ❤️
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Yes, ma’am! I followed you back. 💜❤️💙
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You can’t get rid of us that easy! ❤️😘
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Haha! Oh, I will NEVER leave WordPress! I’m almost certain I’ll definitely be leaving Medium as a whole. But never WP. Lol.
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I’m glad! It wouldn’t be the same without you! I do hope you aren’t too stressed and just happy busy. 😊
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I was getting stressed which is why I’m taking some things away from myself. Thank you!
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🥰😘
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I understand the struggle and unfortunately we often have to prioritise certain things which means we have to let others go.
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Exactly. 🙏🏾💙
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Well, that’s disappointing. Like I said on IG, though, I understand. I have multiple sites, and I battle daily with the idea of letting at least one go. You know what’s best for you, always. I’m glad we met here, and I hope to maintain a relationship outside of here, too.
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Oh, no. I’ll still be here. This is my home. It’s only for the A Cornered Gurl publication via Medium. 🙏🏾💙 WordPress probably has me for LIFE. Lol.
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Ohhhhh Well, yeah you can leave that ✌🏽🤣
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Kathy! I can’t with you! Lol!
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LOLOL
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Awwww trE, I can truly understand and respect where you are coming from. 🤗 When I reluctantly let some projects go that I was passionate about in the past, I had to come to terms that life changes and so do priorities. You are such an encouraging force for so many, but that’s just who you are. When you have problems breathing through overwhelming circumstances, you know when to step back. 👍🏼 So on that note girlfriend, may your upcoming endeavors be prosperous, and may you continue to let your light so shine! 🌟🌞✨ When you moved into your new apartment, I knew that was just the beginning. So spread your wings and enjoy the journey! 🥂 Hugs and smooches! 😊💖😘
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Thank you so much, Kym! I truly appreciate this! ❤️💜💙
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I feel ya sistah girlfriend. Stay focused. You know you’re gonna be okay! 🥰👍🏼🤗
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🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
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Thank you so much for giving my writing a home at ACG. I understand the reason for your decision & thank you for your hard work & dedication for so long. I have recently rejoined Instagram so I’ll keep in touch there! All the love to you, Tre! ❤️💜💚🩵💛
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Thank you, lady! This space is my forever home, though. I’m inclined to believe, WordPress has me for the long haul.
You’re so welcome! 🙏🏾💙
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I feel the same. Every time I think maybe I don’t want to blog anymore, I hear a voice practically screaming at me: “Oh yes you do!” 😁
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Haha. Right!!! Lol. I’m almost certain, I’ll be logging off Medium as a whole for good, though. Pretty soon.
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