What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?
I usually do not answer the daily prompt questions, but this one, I just could not pass up.
The best advice I have ever been given came from one of my older cousins who told me “Take life 15 minutes at a time.”
She stated this because I was having a horrible day that seemed as though it would seep into my weekend, and in her stern yet casual way, she simply let it roll off her tongue and it sunk in for me.
The well-known saying is “One day at a time”, but a full day is 24 hours. That is a HUGE CHUNK of time to try and press through without faltering or falling short of goals.
But to breathe and take on fifteen minutes at a time in life is a much better concept. And I have used this method for the last eight years.
My best friend likes to believe she was the one who told me this, but she was not. Lol! I distinctively remember my cousin with her no-nonsense speech and the swag of a Queen who held all the tricks in the palm of her hand tell me this bit of advice, and I shared it with my best friend.
Needless to say, I use it as advice for others who feel like they’re losing their way. I will typically say, “Breathe . . . and take life fifteen minutes at a time.” I also let them know my cousin lent the same advice to me and it works.
When I am steadfast in applying it and I give myself the grace I need, it truly works.
Maybe you will find this to be applicable for you and your life, too. I hope you will.
Do not try to tackle a full day at a time. Take it in little chunks–15 minutes. And breathe.
Autumn is finally here! Let’s celebrate that fact, shall we?!
Peace and blessings.
This is sound advice.
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Nicely said, trE! Great advice!!!
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Thank you kindly for stopping by! 🙏🏾💙
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My pleasure. 🙂
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I like this advice!!!
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🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 It works!
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Definitely will try it.
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Thank you for this! I can do 15 minutes.😊
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You’re most welcome!
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Makes sense, bite-sized living 😊.
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Good advice. It’s so easy to get thrown off. This is wise redirection.
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🙏🏾💙 It truly has helped. Thanks for reading!
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Good advice!
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I’ve heard of breaking chores into small chunks so I guess its kind of the same thing. I do it, though subconsciously. 😉
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Great advice and one I use too.
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Nice advice!
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*Nods* it has worked for me. Thank you!
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A most helpful perspective, trE. Thank you for sharing and happy autumn to you! 🍂
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Thank you! You’re welcome! A very Happy Autumn to you as well, Michele!
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15 minutes is exactly what i do every day and it works.. I’m with you🫶🏽
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It truly does. 🙏🏾💙
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oh, I really like that! 😀
~David
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Yes! It has kept me sane so far, so I’ll take it! LOL!
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Those are wise words and I’ll keep them in mind. Thanks and happy autumn/fall 🤗
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You’re most welcome! Yaaasss! Happy Autumn! 🌼🥮 🍂
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“You don’t need to know everything” (you don’t need to know all the details) that’s the best advice I have been given. And I honor that.
Yours, taking it (life) in 15 minutes at a time is a wise one. Great advice. I love it. I’ll pass it along and quote as hearing it from trE first. Wow. Lovely. Bless you.
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Trust me, it works. It truly does.
I like your best advice as well. I tell people all the time, “I do not need closure.” Save all the details, sometimes it’s best that we don’t have them.
Happy Sunday/Monday to you!
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Happy Sunday dear trE 🤗
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