So, This Is America …

Land of the Free (laughable). Home of the Brave (how sure are we about that?). This … a country that would rather make it illegal for a woman or a person with a uterus to make their OWN decision about what to do with THEIR body because well, it can versus implementing gun laws that could save hundreds of thousands of lives.

America would rather see you carry a gun than ensure women have valuable healthcare as it pertains to their bodies.

Let that marinate.

*Comments are closed because I don’t feel like arguing with anyone who does NOT have a uterus or arguing with someone who DOES have a uterus but does not realize the impact this decision will have on everyone.

Motivational Affirmations To Self #3

Below, you will find a few affirmations I’ve been saying to myself daily and sharing them to LinkedIn. I hope you find them helpful, just as much as I have, and others too.

All positive affirmations created by Tremaine L Loadholt via the Create Quote app

I have been saying these affirmations to myself, and they have been helping. I’m actually on number 99, and when I have shared 100 motivational affirmations to myself, I’ll be done. Of course, I won’t stop speaking life into my heart and pulling some good energy into my realm, I’m just not going to be on a daily streak of sharing them anymore.

I had a goal; create and share 100 positive and motivating words with myself, and I have just about reached that. I am happy with this goal and I am even happier that I stuck with it for 100 days.

I hope these words of encouragement inspire you and lift you up in some way. We need a few anchors in our lives, especially now.

“Speak life, always speak life. The tongue should not hold death.”

This Is How We Pass the Time

Jernee Timid Loadholt gazing at the scene before her on our early morning walk. Photo Credit: Tremaine L. Loadholt

Haiku, 3 Parts

little precious one
stops to admire the scene
first day of summer

a cool breeze greets us
the air isn’t too dry yet
we pause for effect

it’s how we pass time
taking cautious steps toward
rolling hills of green



©2022 Tremaine L. Loadholt Originally published on Simily.

Happy Father’s Day

Father’s Day Breakfast

I called my dad EARLY this morning to wish him a happy Father’s Day. I also made certain he knew I’d be emailing his poem to him. Recently, I shared We Don’t Want To Rewind Time on this blog, and the piece is actually doing very well across all writing platforms. I wanted/want him to know I’ll always have a place in my heart for him, and there will never be anything but love for me to share with him. Regardless of anything and everything else, there is love.

So, on this Father’s Day, I want to wish every father, caretaker, mentor, uncle, older cousin, and anyone who is giving their time, efforts, and love to a child or children of any age nothing but love and a beautiful day ahead.

For anyone remembering a father or fathers no longer here with us, I offer you peace and healing, and may there be happy memories for you to pull from your memory bank to reflect upon and embrace.

I am enjoying a lovely breakfast as my own personal gift to all of you by way of a happy tummy.

Peace and blessings!